Adoption fraud: Should third parties keep child?

Posted on October 20th, 2009 by Jeanne Hannah in Ask the Family Lawyer

Ask the Family Lawyer, by Jeanne M. HannahGlenn Sacks’ blog, Fathers & Families, recently featured an article authored by Robert Franklin, Esq. that caught my eye. He wrote about a biological father who opposed the adoption of his child, but the Texas court named prospective adoptive parents as “managing conservators” (in Michigan’s parlance, the primary physical custodial parents).

Four years later, a Texas appellate court is sending the matter back to the trial court for a re-determination whether the biological father should have custody of his child instead of third parties.

I frequently am contacted by fathers who are concerned about their parental rights in cases where the parents have never married. Last week, while in court on another matter, I listened to oral argument in a case involving a father whose child has already been adopted — a father who is hoping to overturn the adoption that had been granted because the mother failed to identify him at the time of the adoption in order to destroy his ability to have custody of the child she did not want, the child for whom she had arranged a private adoption.

Thus I found the article Single Dad Stops Adoption; May Get Custody of his Son very interesting. As Franklin writes, “In this case, a single father actually wins a round in family court. It’s not over yet, for reasons I don’t understand, but read the court’s opinion here and maybe you can figure it out.”

Franklin continues:

“There’s a good bit to chew on in the case of In the matter of Baby Boy M., A Minor. As its name suggests, this is an adoption case. Like the last adoption case out of Utah that I wrote about a few weeks ago, the facts in this case tell a lot about the depths to which some mothers will descend to keep a father from his child. Adoption agencies facilitate the mother’s behavior.

“Shawn and Samantha lived together in the little Texas town of Granbury just southwest of Fort Worth. They weren’t married, but they had a daughter, Kaylee in 2003. In late 2004, Samantha moved out of the house and within weeks was living with Darrell. A few months later, she announced that she was pregnant and intended to place the child for adoption. Shawn immediately told her that, if the child were his, he wanted custody and would not agree to any adoption.

“Samantha learned of a couple, Travis and Sabra Hess, who lived in Boise, Idaho, who wanted to adopt. The Hesses were using the services of LDS (think “Latter Day Saints”) Family Services.”

Samantha met with the adoption agency two weeks before the baby was due to be born. At that time, when asked the identity of the baby’s father, Samantha acknowledged that Shawn was the father. She claimed he was not aware of her pregnancy. She was asked to provide contact information for Shawn, but Samantha said she did not know where he was. Shawn’s date of birth and social security number were provided to the caseworker. Later, Samantha asked to work with a different caseworker, claiming “a personality conflict.”

Samantha next met another LDS caseworker, and her information about the identity of the baby’s father was less than forthright. Shawn was located and contacted; he informed booth LDS caseworkers that he had no intention of relinquishing his parental rights if the child were his. When Shawn and his mother learned what hospital Samantha was in, they both talked to a social worker there and told her Shawn would request a DNA test to determine paternity and assert his rights.

Despite the fact that everyone involved in the case was well-informed that Shawn refused to give up his parental rights, no genetic testing was done to confirm or deny this. Thus, without the DNA testing, the baby was not given to Shawn, but was placed with the adoptive family and was taken to Idaho. Shawn was refused any information by all involved.

Shawn did not give up. He filed the correct forms with the Texas Paternity Registry within the 30 days allotted him. He talked to several attorneys, contacted the FBI and even wrote a letter to the governor.

There has been a lot of water under the legal dam as a result of delays that appear to have been caused intentionally by LDS, according to Franklin. The child is now four years old. There has been no adoption, but the trial court made the Hesses the “managing conservators.” Their argument at trial was that Baby M has been with them so long, it would be psychologically harmful for his custody to be transferred to Shawn.

What a tragedy this case is — so similar to Michigan “Baby Jessica” case. In that case, the child was given up in adoption in Iowa and taken to Michigan. Once the biological father learned that the child was his, he and the mother fought to recover the baby. Although the adoptive parents had the child for more than two and a half years, the Michigan Supreme Court eventually ruled that the child, given up without the lawful consent of her biological father, had to be returned.

You may read the Texas case of In the Matter of Baby M here. Compare the results / process in that case with the Baby Jessica case In Re Clausen here.

The rest of Franklin’s article Texas Single Dad Stops Adoption may be read on Glenn Sacks’ Blog Fathers & Families here.

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    Since I am personally involved in this case, I want to make certain facts known. I have written about this case as an adoptee whose father is denied his parental rights and thus 40 years later am denied access to his information in order to contact him.

    The adoptive parents in this case are known as the non parents. His parental rights have never been terminated. Shawn also has a very liberal visitation. He visits his son once a month and then has custody of him for the month of July. His son knows who is his father is. The non parents knew he wanted his child before his child was even born. There is a tape out there that has been submitted as evidence where Samantha and her boyfriend were quoted as saying that they had every intention of hiding this child from him. Shawn did everything right from signing up on the putative father registry to following through with pursuing his parental rights. The adoption agency involved was fined and told to pay Shawn's legal fees. The adoption agency social worker was also placed on probation. Shawn later sued both the LDS Church and the adoption agency which was settled out of court. The so called non parents in this case were told that this was a high risk placement before the birth, after the birth and during this court case. They even signed documentation to that effect. The Hess's are relatives of her current boyfriend. She didn't learn of them. Her boyfriend set the whole thing up. There has been a DNA test that confirms that he is the father. It took several months to get it done because the Hess's delayed in getting it done.

    What people do not understand is that his son should have never left the state of Texas. The agency encouraged this to keep the father fighting. They did this to keep him from finding out about his son. The Hess's knew all along that he would contest. They were in the hospital with Samantha when this occurred. They had gotten a room in the hospital to be with her. The hospital social worker told both of them that he was.
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    The fact that Shawn has been able to form the type of relationship that you describe above and that he actually has a relationship with Kaylee puts the child less at risk than Baby Jessica in Michigan's In Re Clausen case! In the Baby Jessica case, there was a huge hue and cry about removing the child from the only parents she had known during her about 2.5 years. I can still remember the emotional removal of the child from the DeBoer's home, which was shown on national TV. But Kaylee knows Shawn, thus a transfer in custody should not be so traumatic.

    In my opinion, unless the Texas trial court, on remand, makes the third party custodians prove by clear and convincing evidence that placing Kaylee with her biological father would create a substantial risk of harm to the child's mental, physical, or emotional health, then the Texas court's decision would violate Shawn's constitutional rights. The U.S. Supreme Court clearly favors the rights of fit parents over the claims of third parties in Troxel v Granville, decided on June 5, 2000.

    The law doesn't require parents to be perfect. The law isn't supposed to favor two married custodians who might be able to provide a more affluent lifestyle for a child over a fit biological parent. Often, what children get are "pretty good" parents or, in some cases a "pretty good parent." So long as there is no abuse or neglect, that is good enough.

    I am interested in discussing this case with Shawn to see if I may be of some assistance to him and his Texas attorneys.
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    Its his son that he is fighting over, not Kaylee. His son's name is Hunter even though the birth certificate still calls him Baby Boy Myers. Yep that has not been changed.

    You can email me privately to get their contact information.
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    Amyadoptee,

    Your email address is not revealed. Do please give Shawn my email address: jeannemhannah@charter.net

    After reading the Texas Court opinion, I was left with a conviction that a stronger constitutional law argument needs to be made. I've assisted with amicus briefs for the State Bar of Michigan Family Law Section in cases involving third party custody issues -- arguing for the biological parent. I would love to share some of the legal arguments with Shawn's attorney.
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    Hello this is sandra mcdonald . Shawn is my son. Everyone doesn't know that shawn's fight started in Johnson county courts and then moved to the dallas court because that is were LDS filed to take his rights there. That is why it took so long to get into court. The judge let LDS postpone it. Then after the jury let the Hess family keep Hunter the judge took her time in fact 1 year to do the final so shawn could appeal. Then almost a year for the appeal court now we are in the supreme court.. This is so wrong. Hunter loves to come to Texas. We had him for a month this summer. With all the lies that the hess family say it's hard to understand how they can look at theirselfs. Would love to talk to you please write me at sam22254@yahoo.com
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    Hello Sandra,

    I apologize for my earlier confusion of names . . . Fitting blogging into a busy family law practice isn't easy. My answers are often written on the fly or late at night.

    I have a great deal of empathy for you in your situation regarding your son Shawn. First of all, it is very hard for a private individual to fund litigation with a huge and well-funded organization like LDS.

    Second, although there are certainly times when I feel as though children don't have enough voice . . . as though parents' rights sometimes trump a child's right to a good environment . . . still overall, I advocate for a constitutional resolution of these issues conforming to the current state of the law after the U.S. Supreme Court decision in Troxel v Granville (parent vs grandparent) http://tinyurl.com/yhxeldm because it provides families and lawyers with a greater potential to predict an outcome based upon legal precedence -- in other words with greater certainty and ability to resolve issues more quickly.

    There is so much good legal precedence about the constitutional rights favoring biological parents. Every case, is of course, dependent upon its own facts. I haven't seen any of the paperwork in your case, so I cannot really give any type of legal opinion. But, as I earlier said, this case sounds so much like the Michigan "Baby Jessica" case, which you may read here. http://tinyurl.com/ycccow3

    The fact that Hunter has been able to maintain a parent-child relationship with you gives him a distinct advantage over Baby Jessica who was taken from the only family she'd ever known and returned to her biological parents. A transfer in custody from the "non-parents" to you would not be so traumatic.

    Let's hope that the Texas Supreme Court renders a decision soon. Jeanne M. Hannah
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